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Hen Party Planning Tool

Build a day-by-day plan you can share with the group

Choose your destination, group vibe and activities.

Generate a shareable day-by-day hen party itinerary with buffer time built in.

Written by Hen HideawaysUpdated March 2026Free planning toolNo sign-up required

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Pick your destination and vibe. Build a day-by-day plan you can tweak, share and print.

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Planning guide

How to get the most from this tool

Plan your stress-free hen weekend without the chaos

A stress-free hen weekend itinerary needs one main daytime activity, a sit-down meal and evening entertainment per day, with buffer time for getting ready and taxis.

This builder gives you a customizable day-by-day plan you can share and print. Leave at least 30 minutes between back-to-back activities.

Stress-free hen weekend itinerary template

Use this editable weekend itinerary as your starting point. For sample UK weekends, logistics checklists and step-by-step customisation, start with our hen do itinerary template, then tweak times here once activities are booked.

  • Friday (hen weekend day 1): arrival, settle in, casual dinner, light Hen Party Games at the house.
  • Saturday: main activity (spa, cocktail class or bottomless brunch), outfit change, big night out.
  • Sunday: slow brunch, pack-down and travel. Keep the last hen weekend morning gentle.
  • Share editable templates with the group a week ahead so everyone knows dress code and transport. Point guests to our hen party outfits guide for white-for-bride and black-for-guest rules.

Hen Party Games and memorable evenings

A memorable hen weekend balances one big night with recovery time. Slot Hen Party Games on the first evening when energy is high but the group is still warming up.

Make the itinerary memorable, not manic

Where we have verified venues, swap template suggestions for real spas and experiences. Pair the schedule with a packing list everyone can tick off before the hen weekend.

This is a UK hen weekend planner. If guests ask about a bachelorette party abroad or a separate bridal shower, keep those plans in a different chat so this itinerary stays focused.

Who this hen party itinerary builder is for

Built for the maid of honour or lead bridesmaid who needs a stress-free weekend itinerary guests can actually follow. Export, print or share once timings are firm.

If you still need to agree spend, run the budget calculator first, then return here with confirmed activities.

Example output (default settings)

This is what the tool produces before you change anything. Adjust the settings below to match your group.

Sample weekend itinerary: Bath, 2 nights, Mix of everything vibe, arriving Friday. Includes 46 verified local venues.

Friday - Arrival

  1. 2:00pm: Check in to your hen party house and explore the property
  2. 4:00pm: Welcome prosecco and group photos
  3. 6:00pm: The Bath Brew House — private-dining-hire
  4. 7:30pm: Bath Racecourse — horse-racing
  5. 9:00pm: Bath Pizza Co — group-dining
  6. 9:30pm: Hen party games at the house — shuffle a question pack
  7. 10:30pm: Hall and Woodhouse Bath — group-dining

Saturday

  1. 10:00am: Full English breakfast at the house
  2. 12:00pm: Lansdown Grove Hotel — group-dining
  3. 2:00pm: Pasta Laboratory — cookery-class
  4. 4:00pm: The Canary Gin Bar — gin-tasting
  5. 6:00pm: Group dinner reservation or drinks before the main night out
  6. 8:00pm: Opa Bath — group-dining

Quick tips before you start

  • Build in at least 30 minutes between activities. Groups always take longer to get ready than you expect.
  • Book the first evening restaurant in advance. A table for 14 on a Saturday without a reservation is stressful.
  • Plan the outfit change window into the schedule. It is always underestimated.
  • Have a morning recovery plan ready on day 2. A cooked breakfast or a gentle walk works well.
  • Share the broad plan with everyone at least a week before. Surprises are fun, but people need to know what to pack.

Use the itinerary builder

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Planning note

Build in at least 30 minutes of buffer between activities. Hen groups nearly always take longer than expected to move.

Frequently asked questions

What should a hen party itinerary look like?
A good stress-free hen party itinerary has a daytime activity, an evening meal, and a night out across each day of the hen weekend. Leave gaps for getting ready and travel. Slot Hen Party Games on the first evening if you want a memorable house night without over-scheduling.
How do I share the itinerary with the group?
Use the share button to generate a link. You can also screenshot and share in the group WhatsApp, or print it for each guest. The key information people need in advance: where you're staying, what activities are booked, and what dress code applies each evening.
How much time should I leave between activities?
30 minutes minimum between any two back-to-back activities. More for activities involving changing outfits or travel across a city. Groups of 12+ are notoriously slower at gathering than expected.
What should happen on hen party day 1 vs day 2?
Put the biggest night out on day 1 of a two-night trip if possible. That gives the group all of day 2 for recovery and a relaxed finish. If you want a big activity on day 2, make day 1 the quieter arrival and settle-in evening.
Can I share an editable hen weekend itinerary?
Yes. Use the share button to generate a link, or screenshot and paste into your group WhatsApp. People need the address, booked activities and dress code for each evening at least a week before travel.
Should the bride know the itinerary in advance?
It depends on the bride. Some want to be completely surprised; others have anxiety about surprises and would rather know the broad plan. As the organiser, you can share the overall structure (we're doing a spa morning and a cocktail class) without revealing every detail.
Should I book the house or activities first?
Book accommodation first when you have dates and group size. Large hen houses in Bath, Brighton and Edinburgh can sell out months ahead for summer weekends. Lock the property, then book activities and restaurants close to where you are staying.

Written by the Hen Hideaways team · Last updated March 2026

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