The space

Set in the rolling Scottish Borders countryside near Lauder, Hillhouse Farm Escapes is a fantastic choice for a hen party that wants space, privacy and plenty of ways to celebrate together. The accommodation is spread across two separate houses, Bracken House and Highfield House, giving the group room to gather for big moments while still offering quieter corners for downtime between activities.

This is a brilliant setup for a countryside hen weekend: think long lunches, garden drinks, relaxed dinners, pamper time, games, walks, and a proper catch-up with the whole group under one roof — or, in this case, two. The farm setting gives the weekend a private, away-from-it-all feel, while Lauder and the wider Scottish Borders keep you well connected for days out, activities and supplies.

For shared celebrations, the barn can be used for informal dining or a barbecue-style get-together, and a small marquee can be arranged at an extra charge for sit-down dining of up to 24 guests. That makes it a lovely option if you are planning a special meal for the bride-to-be, a dressed-up dinner, or a low-key party night with everyone together.

Inside the house

Hillhouse Farm Escapes includes two homes: Bracken House, which sleeps 10 with a sofa bed for one extra guest, and Highfield House, which sleeps 8 with two camp beds available for additional children. Across the properties there are 9 bedrooms, making the layout well suited to groups who want a balance of shared space and comfortable sleeping arrangements.

Each house has its own kitchen, dining area and lounge, so the group can split naturally when needed — ideal for breakfasts in smaller groups, getting ready at different speeds, or giving the bride a little calm before the evening plans begin. The generous living spaces in Bracken House and Highfield House are great for prosecco on arrival, hen games, movie time, or a relaxed night in with grazing boards and music.

Having two kitchens is a real bonus for a hen weekend. You can keep drinks chilled in one house, prep brunch in another, or bring in a private chef or local caterer for a more polished dining experience without needing to leave the property. The hosts can recommend trusted local caterers for anything from an easy supper to canapés, cocktails or a full celebration meal, and a mobile bar can also be arranged if you want to add a fun evening element.

Hen weekend highlights

The outdoor space is a major part of the appeal here. With garden areas, outdoor seating and the farm landscape around you, there is plenty of room for arrival drinks, group photos, lawn games and slow mornings with coffee. A barbecue in the barn or outside dining setup is a great way to keep things sociable without making the weekend feel too formal.

Hot tubs are available to hire if required, adding a classic hen weekend treat to the countryside setting. They are ideal for a chilled Friday night after everyone arrives, a Saturday afternoon soak before dinner, or a relaxed Sunday wind-down before heading home.

There is also a tennis court on site, perfect for a friendly doubles tournament or a playful hen party challenge. If your group likes activities, Hillhouse Farm Escapes can help you lean into the rural setting with options such as sheepdog demonstrations, clay shooting, archery and other country sports. For something softer, group sessions such as tastings or flower workshops can be arranged, which work beautifully for mixed-age hen groups or brides who prefer a more creative weekend.

The layout also suits different styles of celebration. You can keep it cosy with home-cooked meals and games in the lounge, go all-out with catered dining and a mobile bar, or build a weekend itinerary with outdoor activities, hot tub time and a special dinner for the bride.

Location & getting around

Hillhouse Farm Escapes is located in Lauder, in the Scottish Borders, a scenic area known for countryside views, market towns and easy access to walking and cycling routes. Farm tracks are right on the doorstep, so it is simple to add a fresh-air walk into the weekend without needing lots of planning or transport.

Lauder gives you a peaceful base while still being well placed for exploring. Edinburgh is around 30 minutes away, making it a strong option for groups who want one day or evening in the city for shopping, cocktails, dinner or nightlife before returning to a private countryside base. Nearby market towns such as Melrose are great for browsing, lunch stops and relaxed day trips, while North Berwick and beautiful beaches can be reached within around 45 minutes.

For hens travelling from different parts of the UK, the location offers a useful blend of rural atmosphere and accessibility. You can enjoy the slower pace of the Borders without feeling cut off, and activity providers, caterers and optional extras can help make the weekend feel tailored to your group.

Enquire today

If you are planning a hen weekend in the Scottish Borders and want space for a sociable countryside celebration, Hillhouse Farm Escapes is well worth a closer look. Message the host with your dates, group size and any plans you have in mind — from hot tub hire and BBQs to catered dinners, workshops or country activities — and start shaping a weekend that suits the bride and her favourite people.